{"id":2108,"date":"2011-05-05T13:07:24","date_gmt":"2011-05-05T20:07:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.noomii.com\/?p=2108"},"modified":"2011-05-05T13:07:24","modified_gmt":"2011-05-05T20:07:24","slug":"are-you-listening-to-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=2108","title":{"rendered":"Are You Listening To Me?"},"content":{"rendered":"

I was watching a rerun of Bones, on Hulu, and Dr.Temperance Brennan (the forensic anthropologist), interrupted her excited assistant, \u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00c5\u201cFacts first, then conclusions,\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00c2\u009d she stated in her matter-of-fact way. It reminded me of how most scientific types like to recieve their information: data and reasoning first, then a conclusion. Placing the most important part of the communication last is called recency. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

If you’ve ever communicated to someone using recency, and then were interrupted with something like, \u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00c5\u201cjust give me the bottom line,\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00c2\u009d then you are speaking with someone who prefers to be communicated to using\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0primacy<\/span><\/strong>, where the most important part of the communication is placed first.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

In studies of human behavior, four \u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00cb\u0153styles\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u201e\u00a2 have been identified. All of us have at least some aspects of each of the styles, however we usually have a primary style that is most comfortable and natural for us. If you\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u201e\u00a2ve been exposed to <\/span>DiSC<\/span><\/span><\/a> <\/span><\/span>or a similar behaviour or social style system, you know that two of the styles prefer process-oriented thinking\/behaviors and two prefer a more expedient, intuitive style.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

The two styles that are process-oriented \u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u20ac\u0153 called Analyzers (also known as \u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00c5\u201cC\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00c2\u009d, Analytical, or Blue in some style systems) and Stabilizers (aka \u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00c5\u201cS\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00c2\u009d, Amiable or Green) – prefer recency. Like Dr. Brennan, they prefer knowing that a logical, sequential set of facts and ideas have resulted in the conclusion presented. If you fail to build your case in a logical, rational manner, your argument will be disregarded as faulty and\/or rash.<\/span><\/p>\n

Expedient styles \u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u20ac\u0153 Controllers (aka \u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00c5\u201cD\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00c2\u009d, Driver, or Red) and Persuaders (\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00c5\u201cI\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00c2\u009d, Expressive or Yellow) – prefer primacy. Present the most important, bottom-line information first. Then additional information can be shared as needed in order to make decisions or gain understanding. If you begin your conversation with a lot of facts and details, you will only frustrate them and they may get impatient and interrupt, or they will tune you out. Either way, your communication will not get through as you desire.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you are presenting to a group with mixed styles, present your information in primacy fashion. Otherwise, you run the risk of losing your expedient listeners right away. Present the most salient facts and data to support your conclusions, but if there are a lot, have a separate handout that you can give to those who want the data. Process types will greatly appreciate it if you email this supporting data before the meeting. This gives them the time they need to pore over it and they will feel well prepared for your presentation. Don\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u201e\u00a2t expect the expedient types to have opened the attachment at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

Presenting information in the manner that your listener prefers increases the likelihood that they will connect with you and accept your recommendations. The concepts of primacy and recency are useful tactics to keep in mind when applying behavior style concepts to the practical skills of influence, sales and clear communication.<\/span><\/p>\n

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