{"id":2768,"date":"2011-09-02T11:00:38","date_gmt":"2011-09-02T18:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.noomii.com\/?p=2768"},"modified":"2011-11-18T14:42:16","modified_gmt":"2011-11-18T22:42:16","slug":"riding-the-wave","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=2768","title":{"rendered":"Riding the Wave"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I recently spent a week at the beach in North Carolina, one of my favorite places in the world.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 Ever since I was a little girl, I&#8217;ve loved the ocean&#8211;the smell of the salt, the crash of the tide, the discovery of sea shells. Although I&#8217;ve enjoyed many great swims in the Atlantic, I&#8217;ve never even <em>considered<\/em> <strong>surfing<\/strong>&#8230;until this summer.<\/p>\n<p>The little beach shack we rented had a &#8220;boogie board&#8221; in the shed, and my dad grabbed it when loading the trunk. One afternoon, when the tide was especially calm, I decided the boogie board would be a good floating device, as the sea felt more like a lake to me. For some reason that day, I joined a few surfers on the other side of the pier, and watched their efforts to catch a little action. It was fascinating-and like an otter, I joined in, emulating their every move.<\/p>\n<p>Now, you can&#8217;t really surf on a boogie board, but it can serve as an &#8220;amateur introduction&#8221; to surfing. After two hours of imitating the pros, one of them looked across the tide at me and asked, &#8220;Why don&#8217;t you ride the wave?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The simple answer was,\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 I didn&#8217;t know how. But here&#8217;s what I did learn that day:<\/p>\n<p>1.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 <strong>Passion.<\/strong>\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0If you love something, the investment is worth the time-it was no big deal to spend over two hours in the ocean, just waiting for a good wave. (The guy I met had been out since 6:30am.)<\/p>\n<p>2.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 <strong>Translation.<\/strong>\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 A specific &#8220;skill set&#8221; in one area can offer additional opportunities in another: I had taken swimming lessons all the way through to achieving my life-saving certificate, and realized that this preparation was a solid foundation for learning to surf. I could expand on this original strength and learn a &#8220;transferable skill.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>3.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 <strong>Patience.<\/strong>\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0Sometimes, a little bit of excitement takes a lot of patience, but it&#8217;s worth the wait: all of us knew that the ocean offered waves of opportunity, but that day, it meant holding out sometimes for 20-30 minutes between each ride. Although the joy was fleeting, it was also fulfilling. I finally understood why surfers stayed out in their wetsuits past dark.<\/p>\n<p>4.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 <strong>Vision.<\/strong>\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0Not only can you beat yourself up if you miscalculate the potential curve of an upcoming wave, but you can&#8217;t look behind you and watch that opportunity disappear for long-because you might get slammed by an approaching tsunami! Every surfer knows to set their vision ahead, both to catch the next wave, and to avoid get pummeled by it!<\/p>\n<p>5.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 <strong>Humility.<\/strong>\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 You&#8217;re not <em>surfin<\/em>&#8216; til&#8217; you&#8217;re <em>standin<\/em>&#8216;. No matter how strong a swimmer I am, or how great I can imitate others in the water, I was only swimming with a board if I couldn&#8217;t stand on it.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 But I needed help from a teacher to complete that last step.\u00c3\u201a\u00c2\u00a0 At some point in learning a new skill, each of us encounters a missing link in the learning process when we need the perspective of an expert on the outside to develop the right muscles on the inside. Someday, I&#8217;d like to take lessons from a pro-because I know that coaching is the key to take the leap from <em>swimming<\/em> to <strong>surfing<\/strong>. But I&#8217;m going to have to ask for assistance from an instructor to conquer that final (and most crucial) step.<\/p>\n<p>I learned all this during one day at the shore, but I also gained something more: there is a sea of potential out there&#8230; sometimes, it just means that we need to take an extra &#8220;tool from the shed&#8221; and let it lead us to new discoveries!<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s to riding the wave ~ of learning and living!<\/p>\n<div class=\"SPOSTARBUST-Related-Posts\"><H3>Related Posts<\/H3><ul class=\"entry-meta\"><li class=\"SPOSTARBUST-Related-Post\"><a title=\"5 Surprising Results From 21 Days of Gratitude\" href=\"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=5409\" rel=\"bookmark\">5 Surprising Results From 21 Days of Gratitude<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"SPOSTARBUST-Related-Post\"><a title=\"The Grumpy Employee\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u201e\u00a2s Guide to Being Happier at Work\" href=\"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=5127\" rel=\"bookmark\">The Grumpy Employee\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u201e\u00a2s Guide to Being Happier at Work<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"SPOSTARBUST-Related-Post\"><a title=\"Your Inner Critic: How to Figure out its Kryptonite &#038; Give it a Makeover\" href=\"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=5078\" rel=\"bookmark\">Your Inner Critic: How to Figure out its Kryptonite &#038; Give it a Makeover<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"SPOSTARBUST-Related-Post\"><a title=\"Trust &#8211; THE Power Tool for Living Large\" href=\"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=1676\" rel=\"bookmark\">Trust &#8211; THE Power Tool for Living Large<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"SPOSTARBUST-Related-Post\"><a title=\"Life Saving Tips for Better Work and Life Balance\" href=\"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=1185\" rel=\"bookmark\">Life Saving Tips for Better Work and Life Balance<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I recently spent a week at the beach in North Carolina, one of my favorite places in the world.&#50051;&#50050;&#49824; Ever since I was a little girl, I&rsquo;ve loved the ocean&ndash;the smell of the salt, the crash of the tide, the discovery of sea shells. 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