{"id":5020,"date":"2013-08-20T09:00:04","date_gmt":"2013-08-20T16:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=5020"},"modified":"2025-01-29T12:45:06","modified_gmt":"2025-01-29T20:45:06","slug":"ugh-no-passion-at-work-5-thought-leaders-on-career-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=5020","title":{"rendered":"Ugh, No Passion at Work? 5 Thought Leaders on Career Happiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<strong>Take your passion and make it happen.<\/strong>\n\nThose words from the iconic eighties Flashdance anthem are indelibly imprinted on our collective subconscious. But today, as more of us report burgeoning levels of job dissatisfaction, should we begin to question them? A few eminent thought leaders and scientists would posit that, yes, we should.\n\nThey would say it\u2019s somewhat foolhardy to expect passion to determine what you do. You\u2019re probably outraged by that. \u201cThat\u2019s not what we\u2019ve been told,\u201d you may want to interject. And you\u2019d be right, that is definitely not what we\u2019ve been told. But consider, too, that maybe, just maybe, we\u2019ve been given bad advice.\n\nConsider that passion is an outcome of brilliance, and not a precursor to it.\n\nWhat does that mean?\n\nMore and more great minds are telling us that if we want to be happy at work, we shouldn\u2019t obsess over what makes us passionate. We should focus our attention instead on gathering rare and valuable skills, cultivating an attitude of positivity, and feeling the rewards of putting skills to use in the service of others.\n\nCould it be that passion is a by-product of these other elements, and not an entry-level privilege?\n<h2>The Passion Trap<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_5028\" style=\"width: 267px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5028\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5028\" alt=\"CalNewport\" src=\"http:\/\/noomii-blog-files2.s3.amazonaws.com\/2013\/08\/CalNewport.jpg\" width=\"257\" height=\"183\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-5028\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><a href=\"http:\/\/calnewport.com\/info\/\">Cal Newport<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n\nThe lineage of the prevalent paradigm that says you must first \u2018find your passion\u2019 can be traced to the emergence of a tidal wave of self-help books in the eighties. The most talked-about of these were Joseph Campbell\u2019s \u201cFollow your Bliss,\u201d and Richard Bolles\u2019 \u201cWhat Color is Your Parachute?\u201d In both books, <a href=\"http:\/\/calnewport.com\/blog\/2010\/10\/16\/the-passion-trap-how-the-search-for-your-lifes-work-is-making-your-working-life-miserable\/\">Cal Newport<\/a>, a writer and assistant professor of computer science at Georgetown University, the central theses encourage (and this is bold) misery.\n\nIf we spend our time fantasizing about a dream job, and expect said job to make us feel exhilarated all day every day, can that job ever measure up? The likely answer is a resounding \u2018no.\u2019\n\nSteve Jobs, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.businessnewsdaily.com\/3199-following-passion-cliche-debunked-skills-trump-passion.html\">Newport tells us<\/a>, didn\u2019t begin his career at Apple with the intention to create technology that was going to change the world. The reality is actually far duller. He stumbled into the company and eventually developed his brilliance through hard work. Then, and only then, was he rewarded with enough passion to power a small country.\n\nNewport suggests that it is the sense of mastery and autonomy that comes from exercising your skills that engenders a passion for what you do.\n\nSkills trump passion every time, he says.\n<h3>Here\u2019s Newport&#8217;s advice in a nutshell:<\/h3>\nDeveloping skills is hard work. Roll up your sleeves and don\u2019t expect things to fall on your lap.\n\nThe following is a snippet of his wise counsel, verbatim: &#8220;You have to start out at the entry level. And that&#8217;s not fun every day. There&#8217;s this period, especially at the beginning, when you&#8217;re building up your skills, and every day you&#8217;re not a master of the universe. There are so many people in my generation that basically never get past that stage. They say, &#8216;I&#8217;m three months in, and I have to do some work that&#8217;s not fun. This must not be my passion. Maybe I should open a wine shop.'&#8221;\n\nDuring a recent career development seminar, the discussion touched on the challenges of perseverance in today\u2019s job market and how distractions often lead people away from long-term goals. One participant brought up how industries are adapting to consumer demand, citing the rise of <a href=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/igaming\/uk\/casinos-not-on-gamstop\/\">slots site not on gamstop<\/a> as an example of businesses reshaping online entertainment by offering alternatives unrestricted by traditional regulations. The conversation underscored the importance of persistence\u2014whether in building a career or navigating evolving industries\u2014reminding everyone that true success comes from pushing past the initial hurdles.\n\nIf you\u2019ve been laboring under the idea that there\u2019s one thing out there that you were made to do and you have to discover that passion to be happy, you\u2019re going to spend a lot of time thinking and not a lot of time doing.\n\nPerhaps there\u2019s wisdom in that.\n<h2>Happiness brings success more than success brings happiness \u2013 Scott Crabtree\u2019s two cents<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_5035\" style=\"width: 228px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5035\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5035\" alt=\"Scott Crabtree\" src=\"http:\/\/noomii-blog-files2.s3.amazonaws.com\/2013\/08\/Scott-Crabtree1.jpg\" width=\"218\" height=\"188\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-5035\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.happybrainscience.com\/about\/\">Scott Crabtree<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n\nScott Crabtree, a teacher of neuroscience, psychology and the science of happiness, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.happybrainscience.com\/2012\/05\/08\/the-science-of-being-happier-at-work-in-three-minutes\/\">tells us that<\/a> neuroplasticity means you can rewire your brain to be happy. And you should because you&#8217;re more productive and intelligent when you are happier.\n\nYour happiness, he says, is not as dependent on your job, your genes, or your circumstances as it is on what you think and do.\n\nHere\u2019s his 3-step plan for your happiness:\n<ul>\n \t<li>Get into \u2018flow\u2019 as you pursue your goals by focusing, undistracted, on a very challenging but possible task, for at least 20 minutes at a time. Get \u201cin the zone.\u201d Don\u2019t multi-task.<\/li>\n \t<li>Practice positivity. That means having a good attitude, looking at the bright side, and being optimistic. Science tells us that a positive attitude and optimism really work to make you happier and therefore more productive. Try writing down your best possible future. Whether it comes true or not, writing down your best possible future will make you happier.<\/li>\n \t<li>Prioritize people and relationships. The strongest influence on your happiness is the quality of your relationships. Invest time, energy, and attention in them. Start by expressing gratitude to those you appreciate.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Shawn Achor, author of The Happiness Advantage, tells us that it\u2019s in the giving that we get.<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_5037\" style=\"width: 152px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5037\" class=\"wp-image-5037 \" alt=\"Shawn Achor\" src=\"http:\/\/noomii-blog-files2.s3.amazonaws.com\/2013\/08\/Shawn-Blue-Shirt.jpg\" width=\"142\" height=\"192\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-5037\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><a href=\"http:\/\/goodthinkinc.com\/speakers\/shawn-achor\/\">Shawn Achor<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n\nThe social support perceived by an employee is the most reliable metric for predicting job satisfaction. And since job satisfaction directly correlates with productivity, an employee needs to feel supported to perform well in the job they\u2019re doing, right? Wrong.\n\nHere\u2019s the twist: <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.hbr.org\/cs\/2011\/07\/what_giving_gets_you_at_the_of.html\">Achor found<\/a> that people who give support to colleagues report greater levels of job satisfaction than people who don\u2019t give support to their colleagues. The former group are termed \u2018Work Altruists,\u2019 and the latter \u201cSelfish Isolators.\u201d\n\nDecades of research on social support has mistakenly focused on how much social support you <em>receive<\/em>, not how much social support you <em>provide<\/em>, Achor reveals. And it turns out that giving feels better, does more for you, and provides greater returns in the long run, than getting ever does.\n\nWork altruists are twice as likely to be promoted at work than Selfish Isolators. So if you&#8217;re not giving at work, you&#8217;re not going to be getting a promotion either.\n\nIn short \u2013 nice guys don\u2019t finish last. The reverse is true.\n<h2>Work to live, don\u2019t live to work \u2013 Alexis Grant<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_5039\" style=\"width: 219px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5039\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5039\" alt=\"Alexis Grant\" src=\"http:\/\/noomii-blog-files2.s3.amazonaws.com\/2013\/08\/AlexisGrant_headshot11.jpg\" width=\"209\" height=\"179\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-5039\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><a href=\"http:\/\/alexisgrant.com\/meet-alexis\/\">Alexis Grant<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n\nTo be happy, Alexis Grant, an entrepreneurial writer and digital strategist, tells us we need time to be able to do the things that are most important to us \u2013 get healthy, visit friends, spend time with our spouses, etc. To have that, we need job flexibility. Is it possible to have free time on a work schedule that demands us to be in one specific place for up to sixty hours a week? <a href=\"http:\/\/alexisgrant.com\/2013\/08\/06\/work-should-go-around-your-life\/\">Not really, according to her<\/a>.\n\nOur job should fit around our life, not the other way around. It is nigh on impossible to be happy, she teaches, when we\u2019re living on someone else\u2019s rigid and sometimes unreasonable schedule.\n\nIt is important we don\u2019t feel imprisoned at work, she says. But because society has yet to shift in favor of using the digital tools that would allow employees greater freedom, we might need to create our own paycheck. We need to, she says, redefine our definition of what\u2019s normal. Because it\u2019s not normal, she thinks, to force our lives to fit around what we do to make a living.\n<h2>Business based on service; not self-interest \u2013 Tara Gentile<\/h2>\n<div id=\"attachment_5041\" style=\"width: 162px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5041\" class=\" wp-image-5041 \" alt=\"Tara Gentile\" src=\"http:\/\/noomii-blog-files2.s3.amazonaws.com\/2013\/08\/taragentile_businessstrategist1.jpg\" width=\"152\" height=\"190\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-5041\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.taragentile.com\/about-2\/\">Tara Gentile<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n\nTara Gentile coaches entrepreneurs. She would flat out tell you to stop trying to make money from your passion. It\u2019s business based on self-interest, she reckons. Instead, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.taragentile.com\/stop-trying-to-make-money-from-your-passion\/\">she suggests<\/a> focusing your passion on how it can serve others.\n\nYour passion is an opportunity, she would be quick to remind you, and not the be-all and end-all. It\u2019s an opportunity to teach others and serve with clarity and inspiration. \u201cYou create the opportunity for commerce around the way your passion inspires you to serve others,\u201d is her mantra, as well as \u201cYou can love what you do \u2013 completely \u2013 while making others the foundation of everything you do.\u201d\n<h2>Passion at Work: It all boils down to this<\/h2>\n<ul>\n \t<li>Excessive self-interest is detrimental to job satisfaction, and actually erodes it. Every emergent new thinker is teaching this. An attitude of service is crucial to your success and job satisfaction.<\/li>\n \t<li>Don\u2019t search endlessly for what you were \u2018meant to do\u2019 in this world. Go and get some skills and be so good they can\u2019t do without you. That will feel good, and will definitely ignite your passion.<\/li>\n \t<li>Give more than you get and you will \u2013 paradoxically enough \u2013 get more. But getting can\u2019t be motivation for your actions, confusingly enough.<\/li>\n \t<li>Make time for what you love: climb mountains, play with your kids, travel \u2013 whatever floats your boat. Don\u2019t give a disproportionate amount of time to what you do to make a living over actually living.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<em>Citation: <a href=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/igaming\/uk\/non-gamstop-betting-sites\/\">https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/igaming\/uk\/non-gamstop-betting-sites\/<\/a><\/em><div class=\"SPOSTARBUST-Related-Posts\"><H3>Related Posts<\/H3><ul class=\"entry-meta\"><li class=\"SPOSTARBUST-Related-Post\"><a title=\"20 Things that Make Me Happy at Work\" href=\"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=5256\" rel=\"bookmark\">20 Things that Make Me Happy at Work<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"SPOSTARBUST-Related-Post\"><a title=\"How to Build Support for Your Unconventional Career Choice\" href=\"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=5169\" rel=\"bookmark\">How to Build Support for Your Unconventional Career Choice<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"SPOSTARBUST-Related-Post\"><a title=\"The Grumpy Employee\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u201e\u00a2s Guide to Being Happier at Work\" href=\"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=5127\" rel=\"bookmark\">The Grumpy Employee\u00c3\u00a2\u00e2\u201a\u00ac\u00e2\u201e\u00a2s Guide to Being Happier at Work<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"SPOSTARBUST-Related-Post\"><a title=\"Master Your Mindset and Step into Your Potential\" href=\"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=4085\" rel=\"bookmark\">Master Your Mindset and Step into Your Potential<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"SPOSTARBUST-Related-Post\"><a title=\"Life Saving Tips for Better Work and Life Balance\" href=\"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/?p=1185\" rel=\"bookmark\">Life Saving Tips for Better Work and Life Balance<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Take your passion and make it happen.<\/p>\n<p>Those words from the iconic eighties Flashdance anthem are indelibly imprinted on our collective subconscious. But today, as more of us report burgeoning levels of job dissatisfaction, should we begin to question them? A few eminent thought leaders and scientists would posit that, yes, we should.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":88,"featured_media":5028,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[235,503],"tags":[316,262,343,105,166],"class_list":["post-5020","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-career-coaching","category-mindset","tag-career","tag-happiness","tag-passion","tag-positivity","tag-success"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/s3.amazonaws.com\/noomii-blog-files2\/2013\/10\/CalNewport.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5020","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/88"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5020"}],"version-history":[{"count":17,"href":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5020\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6338,"href":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5020\/revisions\/6338"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5028"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5020"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5020"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.noomii.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5020"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}