Client Details Posted on April 29, 2025

What is your gender?

Female

What do you want to achieve in the next year by hiring a coach?

I am currently making a huge lifestyle change with moving abroad and I would like a coach to assist me with developing mindset shifts to live an abundant and joyful life abroad. I would specifically like an African American or Black female or male life coach who is skilled in working with clients abroad moving to Thailand or Asia. I want to master detachment and also learn to trust others and open myself up to build a supportive community for me and my daughter while living abroad. I would also like to master the law of assumption/ manifestation and permanently release my lack mindset.

Tell us about yourself.

I am a 41 year old single, Black American woman currently living in rural Alabama. I was born in Germany and have lived in the states since I was 3 years old. I have a 15 year old daughter and I am a single mother. My daughter's father is only financially supportive and occasionally spends time with her but he is mostly detached. Both of my parents are deceased and my mom passed while I was a teen. I have 1 younger brother who is very abusive, abuses drugs and constantly leans on me to assist him with things like money, baling him out of jail and motivation. I have gone no-contact with him for the last 6 months. I also have recently went no-contact with my relatives, as they supported my brother being jailed after physically assaulting a woman. I realized I was the family scapegoat and came to the reality that my family did not like me very much. I am a professional licensed Therapist in Alabama, Ga, FL and Texas and have been for the last 10 years. I own a group private practice that I am considering closing after experiencing betrayal trauma from former employees who staged a coup and caused my business to collapse November of 2024. Since then I have closed both brick and mortar offices and have went virtually. I no longer have a passion to practice counseling and I have decided to exit my Doctorate program this June. I am planning to move me and my daughter to Thailand July 30 to provide a better quality of life for her, to world school her since she has had difficulty adjusting to traditional school with severe ADHD, and to finally regulate my elevated nervous system. I intend to world/home school my daughter using a accredited virtual program and by traveling and living abroad for the next 4-7 years. I am basically detaching from everything that I have known for the last 10 years. I have sold my home, working to release my car and other responsibilities and I will start my new journey abroad this summer. I have been diagnosed with CPTSD since the age of 18 due to childhood trauma and often experience freeze and flight symptoms anytime I am triggered by others. I have been disappointed a lot over my 4 decades and released all of my friendships due to betrayal or perceived betrayal. I do not have a person that I would call a friend in close proximity and I am not interested in romantic relationships at all. I feel a bit isolated but I am very independent and often prefer to be hyper-vigilent. I have de-centered men from my life after years of prioritizing romantic relationships over my personal needs. I am recovering from people pleasing, racial discrimination/systemic racism as a black business owner, religious indoctrination, being a perfectionist, and grief. Grief is a huge life theme for me and I am currently grieving my old lifestyle that I was convinced I would pursue for the rest of my life. I am not religious and do not engage in religious activities. I practice spirituality and more specifically I am agnostic. I prefer to work with someone who is not religious or Christian as these are triggers for me as well. Some of my strengths include: resilience and the ability to bounce back, critical thinker and problem solver, usually consistent with attending therapy or coaching, a desire to live an abundant life, currently incorporating meditation and mirror work to reduce being in survival mode, optimistic and open to new ways of healing, creative and enjoys hobbies and traveling, truly have a positive desire to transform my life and finally release the things that no longer serve me. My schedule is flexible and I have wellness days weekly to ensure I can meet with my coach. I hope this was enough info to match me with some amazing professionals, I look forward to hearing from someone soon.

What city/town do you live in?

Rainbow City, AL, USA