Anita Hişir Montreal, Quebec
Relationship Coach, Spirituality Coach, Life Coach
ECPC, The Inhervision Method™
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Montreal, Quebec h2h2g2
604-619-1838-
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- Hourly Rate: $155 to $175 Canadian Dollars
- Gender: Female
- Training: Erickson Coaching International
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About Me
You may feel pretty confident in most areas of your life. You know yourself, you’re independent, and you’d probably say you have a pretty good head on your shoulders. But when it comes to relationships, something seems to change.
Once you really like someone, you start doubting yourself. You focus more on how they feel about you than how you actually feel about them. You question whether you’re asking for too much, ignore things that don’t feel quite right, or put more and more energy into trying to make the relationship work.
Maybe you’ve stayed with someone longer than you knew you should have. Maybe you’ve hoped things would change, given another chance, or questioned whether what bothered you was really important enough to leave over. Or maybe once you’re emotionally invested, it’s just a lot harder to hear yourself clearly.
You want a healthy, loving relationship. But you don’t want to keep losing yourself trying to have one.
This is where I can help.
For over 10 years, I’ve worked in coaching and personal development, helping hundreds of women and men understand themselves and the patterns that show up in their relationships.
My coaching goes deeper than changing the behaviour on the surface. We’ll look at where these patterns came from, what you’ve learned to believe about yourself and relationships, and why you respond the way you do once you’re emotionally invested.
From there, we’ll work on questioning old stories, understanding what you actually feel and need, and building the self-trust to stay on your own side—even when you really want the relationship to work.
If you’re ready to stop losing yourself in relationships and start trusting yourself again, let’s have a conversation.
Reviews
5 reviews (1 verified) (5.0)
VerifiedAnita is so easy to talk to, she's a wealth of ideas and knowledge and is quite patient and understanding
Selin Jessani
I came to coaching feeling misunderstood. I often offered others patience, curiosity, and empathy but rarely felt the same in return. I had grown resentful and begun to believe I was too much. Anita helped me look beneath those feelings. We explored my inner child, people pleasing, the roles I had taken on, my attachment style, and my beliefs about myself and others. I became more aware of how I showed up in relationships and how my assumptions about others perceptions affected me. I learned to recognize recurring patterns, respect my own boundaries and those of others, and regulate my emotions. We also explored my career and what I wanted in a partner, helping me clarify what I valued and needed in both. Most meaningfully, Anita helped me reconnect with myself. At first, I struggled even to name the parts of myself I loved. She reflected those qualities back to me until I could begin to see them too. I learned to acknowledge my wins, listen to my body, appreciate what brought me joy, enjoy quiet moments and time alone, and offer myself some of the care I had hoped to receive from others. Anita was warm, kind, knowledgeable, and professional. She listened closely and remembered what I shared, often connecting a new insight to a conversation from weeks earlier. I felt seen and never had to start my story over. She worked at my pace, gently challenged me when needed, and helped me untangle my thoughts without telling me who to be. Her detailed session notes, thoughtful check-ins, and resources kept me reflecting between sessions. Creative exercises involving art, nature, solo dates, mindful breathing, and affirmations made it enjoyable to practice what we discussed. Her PDF guides helped me organize my thoughts and spot patterns I might otherwise have missed. Working with Anita gave me a deeper understanding of myself, my needs and values, and a kinder way of relating to who I am. I would wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone who wants support while doing meaningful work on themselves.
LK
“Working with Anita has opened up a completely new venue in manifestation as far as my life choices. In the beginning, I was hesitant to use a life coach although I knew I had to make some changes to achieve happiness! I was living from a place of fear and that energy was holding me back. Anita gently encouraged me to dive into my passions and trust my instincts. Together we worked through mental barriers until I reached a level of mental clarity that allowed me bravely grasp what I truly wanted. Anita has a wonderful way of nurturing what is already stirring in the minds of her clients, helping them to realize their strengths and potential. Almost a year since our last session, I have moved across the country, changed homes, swapped careers, and made myself a priority."
A.M., California, United States
I was so lucky to find Anita in a time where I was feeling extremely stuck in all aspects of life. Being completely new to life coaching I was challenged to look within and find answers under Anita's awesome support and skilled guidance. Without Anita I wouldn't have acquired a huge overall improvement in positivity, discovered new directions in life, as well as uncovered aspects of my life I didn't know I wanted to improve. I'm so glad I kept at it even when I felt like I didn't have any answers to my dilemmas. Working with Anita has truly been a life changing experience!”
D.M., California, United States
"Coaching with Anita has been a life changing experience for me. Starting out, I felt like I was wandering through life with no real sense of direction, and without clarity on what I truly want. Anita has really helped provide that clarity for me. Not only do I feel a greater sense of structure and purpose, but we've laid out a practical series of steps to achieving the goals we've discovered are most important to me. Working with Anita has ended up being one of the most important decisions I've ever made, and I can't even imagine how different the direction of my life would be if I had never made that first call."
J.M., Entrepreneur, Washington, United States
