Listen to Noomii's interview with Kevin Kertes

About Me

For much of my life, I played it safe—nestled in middle management, always just beneath the surface, acutely aware of my limiting beliefs. I often doubted myself, attributing it to a lack of discipline.

We're conditioned to believe that independence equates to strength and that seeking support is a sign of weakness. We tell ourselves to keep our heads down and push through. But the truth? It's far more manageable with help. Recognizing this is the most challenging part; the world opens up once you do.

Before the pandemic, I sought out a therapist. Despite years in and out of therapy, I was never fully honest, craving support but never allowing myself to be truly known. Then, I discovered a men's group. Sitting with six strangers, I voiced thoughts I'd never dared to share. I was open, vulnerable, and emotional—instead of judgment, I was met with warmth, kindness, deep understanding, and support.

That moment changed my life. I truly let go for the first time, and it was empowering.

Through it all, I've understood at the deepest level: men need connection.

Now, I coach men—not as a therapist, but as a guide. I help them break out of isolation, build genuine confidence, and move forward with purpose. Everything changes when a man feels genuinely connected—to himself, to others, to something greater than mere survival.

He becomes a better father, husband, partner, and friend. A man who is present. A man who leads with strength and heart. A man who doesn't just go through life but is immersed in it.

We need to be loved. We may think otherwise, but if we're completely honest, we need love, connection, meaning, and purpose. When that happens, we become the men we were always meant to be—the men our partners, our kids, and most importantly, ourselves, can be proud of. We stand in our own power and live up to the true essence of being a man.