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About Me

I'm an intimacy coach, and my path to this work is deeply personal. I grew up in a household where love was scarce—my parents had money, but they struggled with addiction and used their children as emotional pawns. I experienced sexual abuse at the hands of family and close family friends, which led me to believe I was broken and needed constant approval to feel worthy.
For years, I coped by escaping into destructive behaviors—porn, food, escorts, and strip clubs—to fill the loneliness I carried inside. But none of it brought real connection or peace.
Through years of deep therapy, training as a life coach and strategic interventionist, and facing the pain of my past head-on, I learned to feel, own, and ultimately forgive. That healing gave me the capacity for deep compassion and the ability to love my true self.
Now, I help men become masters of intimacy—not just sexually, but emotionally and spiritually—so they can create the love and passion they long for. I teach them to give the one thing that makes their woman feel truly safe:
Their presence.