Laura Blundo Arlington, Massachusetts
Relationship Coach, Life Coach, Family Coach
APSATS- CPC-C, RLT, PIT
Coaching for me, is in the trust and safety in the coaching relationship which creates the space in which the client can take risks and stretch beyond what their normal comfort zone might be. The coaching environment is supportive, but not passive. Clients are encouraged to push beyond what is comfortable to achieve the goals they have established in the beginning.
I specialize in coaching around Relationships, which can be committed partners, business, friendships, families or even our relationship with ourself. Let's identify where you are now vs. where you would like to be. We'll discover what it might take to make the shift and what you might encounter along the way. We'll discover patterns and discover what underlying meaning those patterns may have for you and if they are serving you well.
When our relationships are going well, and we feel loved, valued, respected, cherished and even revered, we feel GREAT! When one or more of our close relationships are on the rocks, we can span from angry, disheartened, depressed, disengaged or walled off. What can we do to bring ourselves back online?
I also work with women and men who have discovered their partners have been engaged in sexually compulsive behavior. Sexual betrayal or intimate deception is devastating and quite complex due to the deep breach of trust by the person they trusted the most. Months, years and perhaps decades of lies all comes crashing when there has been discovery. Was it an unintended text? Perhaps porn images on the computer? Maybe it was a bill that should have been hidden. Helping my clients understand what they are experiencing in the wide range of emotions, establish a plan of how to move forward, self-care, boundaries and partner accountability.
We all deserve to have deep connection in our relationships. Let's work together to create it in your world.
Laura has 4 reviews.
"My husband and I worked with Laura for several months and in that time I saw an incredible transformation in our relationship. We've worked with numerous "marriage counselors” before and while they were really good at teaching us communication skills, Laura went deeper. Much deeper.- L.S. Concord, NH
Her process is powerful and life changing. She not only helped us work on the issues in our marriage, she also helped us both see and heal our own issues and how we contributed to the dysfunction in our relationship. Laura helped us heal ourselves so that we could be better partners in our marriage."
Thank you Laura
In seeing other marriage counselors over years, it always felt like my husband and I were made to focus on ‘adjusting the curtains when the house was on fire’ in that we talked about the week’s events, small things, and not the core issues that caused the pain and friction. Laura drilled down to help repair what was broken, working herself out of a job. That’s what we wanted – results.- Donna – Gilford, NH
There are no words to express how much my life has changed since I began working with Laura. She partnered with me, allowing me to find parts of myself I didn’t know existed. Through our work I have recognized that I am a strong, confident, beautiful person and I feel great!- Karin E. ~ England, United Kingdom
"I cannot thank Laura Blundo enough for all that she has done for me. Our paths crossed during a very difficult time in my life. I was emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically drained. I was middle-aged, depressed, sick, "lost" in every sense of the word, and at the beginning of the end of my marriage of 34 years. Initially I started seeing Laura for couples counseling. Her unbiased, professional, compassionate, loving, and always educational guidance was second to none. Unfortunately, my marriage ended but I so enjoyed working with Laura that I continued seeing her on an individual basis. Laura was instrumental in helping me to rediscover who I am and gave me hope for the future. She provided me with wonderful insight, she encouraged me, and challenged me by simply listening and asking questions. She provided me with valuable resources to read and research on my own, which I continue to do. Her patience, dedication, compassion, empathy, knowledge, and understanding has helped me regain my confidence, curiosity, capabilities, dignity, value, and self-worth. Her lessons have provided me the courage and tools to continue my journey with confidence and purpose. One lesson in particular that I learned from Laura has been invaluable - "You cannot make anyone think, feel or do what you want them to." Brilliant! For a perfectionist, this was life-altering advice. Was Laura Blundo destined to be in my life at a critical point that I needed? I can unequivocally say YES!"Donna T - Gorham, NH