Tamara Nikolic London, England
Life Coach, Career Coach
BA, Accredited Diploma in Transformational Coaching, Accredited Certificate in Mindfulness Coaching, Emotional Intelligence and Positive Psychology
No matter what the outcome client wants from coaching, whether it’s a career change/progression; clarity and sense of purpose; improved relationships, increase in confidence, I believe that the first steps to making a long-lasting change is understanding our self-beliefs - how we view ourselves, the thoughts we have about ourselves and the value we place on ourselves as people.
Once we develop and maintain a healthy, positive sense of self-worth and self-confidence, we suddenly see the opportunity around us, we develop the sense that we can do things successfully, we start making choices with confidence and ultimately, we become proactive in the process of creating an affirmative change in our lives.
And this, in brief, is how I see my role as a coach – to facilitate and support you through the process of creating a healthy self-esteem to empower you to create a positive change, whether in your personal or professional life.
Majority of my clients are women (by chance rather than choice) who find themselves at a crossroads – whether in personal or professional life – and are ready for a transition but unsure of what that is yet and where to begin.
The coaching process often uncovers what are known as limiting beliefs – beliefs about us which we hold to be true, but actually do not serve us and often work actively against us and hinder our progress. When faced with the notion of change, some clients also experience an emergence of the critical inner voice (I am not good enough/ I cannot do it), coupled with fears, which prevent us from seeing and taking advantage of the possibilities.
Establishing effective and confidential coach-client relationship is important to me, with a sense of trust and rapport. Paramount to my coaching approach is empathy, unconditional support, motivation and positivity (with a bit of humour!) – I want to create a space that is safe, considerate and non-judgmental, to unable my clients to freely explore any issues and challenges.
5 reviews (5.0)
I worked with Tamara for over 6 sessions examining my aversion to marketing. Loads of progress has been made and while not fully resolved I now have the tools to move forward. Tamara is brilliant at holding space and knowing when to ask if you're stuck rather than jumping in, helping you clarify your thoughts and take them that little be deeper. Encouraging you to become curious about what is happening for you. I wholeheartedly recommend working with Tamara as a coach who is a pleasure to work with.Rowan
Ive been a life coach for 7 yrs and recently Ive been struggling with finding clarity with what I want in the coming years. Working with Tamara provided crystal-clear ideas and direction, in ways I couldnt of anticipated. Being asked questions that really stretched my thinking and awareness, lead to all the pieces of my puzzle falling perfectly into place. Tamara provided me with all the space and time I needed to connect to my deepest thoughts and ideas, allowing them to flow out of me and paint a clear picture of what I want, what I need and concrete plans and next step actions to make them a reality. Id most likely still be lost if I hadnt worked with her. Dont hesitate in connecting with Tamara if youre looking for answers and the way out of your challenges. Vincent Clohessy Life, Love & Enterprise Coach www.theworldof.loveVincent Clohessy
I worked with Tamara for almost a year and it has been a fantastic journey especially since I was trying to figure out my life and business. Tamara was very helpful, positive, and was a great listener. She helped in focusing in the things that were stopping me from moving forward by asking the right questions. I gained more clarity and confidence about what to do next but also more clarity about who I am and what I want to achieve. I definitely recommend her as a coach!Latifa
Tamara has been a wonderful coach helping me determine my direction and work through my limiting beliefs and other obstacles. She has an extremely warm and kind nature that encourages deeper communication and a genuine connection. Her approach inspired me to explore my own thoughts and find my own solutions rather than reaching out for subjective advice. She comes across as very knowledgable and professional with a great deal of enthusiasm and optimism. She has demonstrated a genuine interest in my project and I feel a real friendship has been formed. I would highly recommend her to anyone looking to find some clarity in what they want to be pursuing, and how to get started and maintain motivation and momentum. I personally did trials with two other coaches before finding Tamara, though her energy, authenticity and compassion set her apart from the others and made choosing to work with her an easy decision. Thank you again for all your help Tamara, and hope to speak soon!Jonathan
I cannot express how much I appreciate and value the time Tamara and I spent working together. I contacted her at a very special moment of my life; I was returning to work from maternity in a company going through a huge reorganization. I found myself lost and insecure as never before in my career - and in my life - and what is worst: stuck, and not really knowing which direction to take. Long story short, Tamara helped me to dust my vision, sharpen it, put my crown back on my head and work towards it! I am now at a completely different place and great things are happening! There was serious work and reflection in this journey, of course, and she was all along the way, helping me to keep focused and accountable and throwing in the right question or ideas to get me out of thinking loops. Plus, she helped me to do this pretty fast. Honestly, she has been to my life like the Nitro button in Too Fast too Furious. Extremely intuitive, she always taps on the essence of things, quickly identifying your needs and stretching when needed to get the best out of you. She is practical and gentle, and has a great sense of humor, so the sessions are also fun! She is a total rock star and I am really grateful that I found her! Thanks a lot, Tamara.Naomi