Listen to Noomii's interview with Chara Taylor

About Me

Hi, I’m Chara A. Taylor, and my mission is simple but powerful: to help women and couples experience intimacy that is both sacred and satisfying. I believe God created intimacy not just to be endured but to be enjoyed, and I’m here to show you how to embrace both the holy and the hot in your love life. As the founder of Hot & Holy Intimacy & Wellness, I bring a fresh, faith-filled approach to coaching that blends biblical wisdom, professional expertise, and a little bit of joyful boldness. With 18 years of marriage to my best friend Ronald, a Master’s degree in Mental Health & Wellness, and certifications in Christian counseling and sexual health, I’ve made it my life’s work to break the silence, bust the myths, and give couples and women practical tools to thrive in intimacy. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unseen, or unsure when it comes to passion, desire, or communication in your relationship—you’re not alone. And you don’t have to stay there. I create a safe, judgment-free space where faith and freedom meet, where we can talk openly about the real struggles, and where you’ll leave encouraged, equipped, and empowered to reclaim joy in your body, marriage, and identity.
My Story—From Struggle to Calling
I didn’t set out to become an intimacy coach—I lived my way into this calling. For years, I saw firsthand how Christian women struggled with desire, shame, and silence when it came to intimacy. Even in my own marriage, I’ve had to face the reality that love, passion, and communication take intentional work. But instead of pretending everything was perfect, I leaned into learning, growing, and teaching. As an ordained pastor for over a decade, I walked with couples who loved God but silently battled in their bedrooms. I watched as women carried guilt about their bodies and men struggled with confidence. I realized that the Church often preached about marriage but rarely taught couples how to enjoy the gift of intimacy. That gap became my mission field. My journey has