When something, or someone, is fit for us...
Posted on May 19, 2020 by Nermine N, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
How to know when something is ready for us or not?
A simple sign that shows that something is fit for us, is its state of willingness, or availability.
In other words, if it is ready for us, or if we are ready for it.
If it is not the case, it might be a sign to simply, and gently, move on….
Until we are ready for each other, or something else.
In both cases, moving on is a win win investment of our time and energy. It is not a forever goodbye.
But moving on, without questioning the why and the how, for this often leads us to doubt our own “self”.
For when the fruit is ripe, it simply leaves the tree, while the other fruits cannot be bothered, rushed out, or forced to wait.
Whether it is in a relationship, where you need to imagine a future when someone will acquire a specific skill before you can be happy with them, or the moment they will finally like the same things as you. Or,
In a job, where you can’t seem to find satisfaction. Or,
When applying for university, while you still don’t have the means to pay it. Or,
When you’re on a waiting list for an apartment,…
…And so many other things…
The sign shows it is either not the right moment, or right choice, or right way…
In any case, take back your energy and focus it on the things and people that are available right now.
Not to flee, nor ignore, or abandon, but simply because staring at the fruit until it gets ripe, will not make it ripe faster…
So while the Universe is preparing “it” for you, or you for “it”, or you for something else, Life is still flowing through your veins… generous, wise, and loving.
Also, if you take a look closer, you might find that everything, is, actually, in perfect harmony right now.
Wish you ease, clarity and peace.
