Where is the RIGHT ONE? How can I find and keep THE ONE?

Posted on June 22, 2021 by Roxana Borcsa, One of Thousands of Career Coaches on Noomii.

Are you afraid of ending up alone? Are you desperate to be with someone? What about romance? Did you have affairs that you want to forget as soon as possible? How did you get into this mess? Do you want sometimes to give up on love? How can you sustain a relationship? Do you have space for romance in your life?
Are you exhausted of dating like ``forever`` and not finding the one?

Are you only finding the wrong people for you? Do you feel tired of searching and not finding the right one?

Is everyone around you in a relationship but not you?

Do you want the relationship to last and be exactly what you wanted?

Do you attract only the unavailable? And how many times were you dumped? In How many ways were you breaking up?

How many years, energy and time did you waste and how much time do you still want to spend on searching and not finding? Don`t you wish to attract only the partners that are good for you?

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YOU CAN’T BE HAPPY UNTIL YOU ACCEPT THIS:
LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!

RESPECT YOURSELF AND THEN OTHERS!

KNOWING YOUR WORTHINESS MAKES YOU STRONGER!

BE HAPPY AND SMILE!

Taking Action – Look at the list of ideas and options you now have:
What would be the smallest or easiest first step for you?
How could you make the dating more enjoyable or fun?
Who else could help you in completing your action/s?
What’s one action you could take in the next 10 minutes?
What are three actions you could take that would make sense this week?
Let’s imagine you have found a magic lamp. You pick it up and absentmindedly begin to stroke it. What’s that? I think it’s talking! Now, as you listen, I wonder what action it tells you to take.
Make a list of ALL the qualities that make you, you! Who are you? Try to

get to around 50 qualities! Be sure to include: So-called “negative” qualities. Afraid of heights? Self-judging? Find it difficult to meet new people? Include all of them (essential as it makes the next step easier).

Include any and everything that pops into your head. Make a list of your dream mate qualities. Make sure you include every little detail you want!

LESSONS: ENOUGH! YOUR LIFE MUST CHANGE! NOW.
SOMETIMES YOU JUST NEED A SECOND OPPINION LIKE WITH DOCTORS, REAL-ESTATE…PARTNERS

DON’T JUST FOCUS ON GETTING DATES AND PARTNERS

TO FILL THE GAP. CREATE A LIFE OF YOUR OWN.

ENTERTAIN, EDUCATE, BE YOURSELF -

LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES, IS OK TO MAKE MISTAKES, IS NOT OK TO KEEP REPEATING THEM.

THERE’S NO ONE SIZE FITS ALL STRATEGY. FIND THE ONE THAT WORKS FOR YOU.

DON’T COMPARE YOUR LOVE LIFE WITH SOMEONE ELSE’S, LOVE YOU AND OTHERS WILL COME AS A MAGNET TO YOU!
Do you need someone to guide you in a professional, objective way through the journey of dating, having, keeping, maintaining a long lasting relationship that is the right one for you!
Why should you trust and confide in me to help you with something so important?

First

I had looked for more than 10 years to find the right one, I have navigated

so hard and slowly in this jungle of dating, and relationship, I have spent so

many years trying to understand the` `why``? Why me? Why not me? Why

are we not compatible? Why are you not in love with me? Why do I care?

Why did you stop calling? Why did I let you in my life knowing that… and so on..you know what I mean…

Second and most important:

Years of researching, years of studying, years of development