Marriage Does Not Make You Happy!

Posted on March 27, 2022 by Berjoh Fullilove, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.

Let’s be real here, getting married does not make you happy. It is the individuals in the relationship that make the marriage happy. So many times you hear, “You been together forever, may as well get married”, or “If you get married, things will get better”, or the infamous “when you get married he/she will change”. All wrong…..sorry. Marriage is just not designed to make you happy. Everything you do in life will be the result of your work. Good or Bad.

Now if you truly want a “Happy Marriage”, here’s some things you should consider:
You are two different people
You both have different personalities
You both have different backgrounds
You both have different habits
You both have different ways of communicating
You both have different ways to handle conflict

The list about each of you goes on and on, but the list that includes “we both” has yet to be made. Give that a thought.

When you decide to get married or if you’re already married and feel that you’re ready to see how you can make your marriage happy, I’m here to help.

But first, we need to do a free consult to gauge your readiness for change. Are you coachable? Let’s see!