The 5-Step Process to Help You Find Love in 2023
Posted on April 12, 2022 by Tamara Pflug, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
Do you want to be in a relationship?
Let me share with you all the best shortcuts so you can find love in the next 6 months!
This is the process to follow:
1. Shift your mindset!
Your thoughts create your feelings and those feelings drive your actions.
If you are not happy with what’s currently going on in your love life, it’s because of the thoughts you’re having!
And this is AMAZING NEWS!
Because every thought is optional, you can choose what to think on purpose.
2. Create many opportunities to meet people!
You have to go out there and meet more and more people.
How do you do that properly?
You can start by asking around if anybody is single and if this person could be a good fit for you!
What is the worst that can happen, really?
Then, you can think of starting some hobby, going to a workshop, learning something new and meeting some people there too! :)
3. Go on MANY dates!
If you want to find love, it’s like a job (and yes, it can be fun!), you have to go on MANY dates.
Some dates will be fun and some less I understand, but this is the best way to put all the chances on your side!
And you can definitely see it as an anthropological experience!
You never know who you’re going to meet, you have nothing to lose, you can grow your network, make new friends, who knows?! This is the way to find love!
4. Use this time to learn about yourself!
It’s important that you’ll be happy before meeting that other person and not expecting that they will make you happy.
They are just a bonus to your life!
Imagine the pressure on that other person! And also for you to them!
You don’t want to have that huge responsibility of making somebody happy.
Everybody is taking care of their needs and you are together to share great moments and great company!
What if this will be as true, if not truer than our conception of “My partner has to make me happy!”? Think about it to find love!
So, use this time to learn about yourself and ask yourself:
What makes you happy?
What do you like doing during your free time?
What are your values, what’s important to you?
Take this time to learn more about yourself!
To be happy on your own!
There’s nothing nicer than to hang out with somebody who’s happy by themselves, it’s just fun and pleasant to be around them!
5. Ask yourself empowering questions to help you text and date!
During this time, you’re going to text many people and date a bunch of people too.
That can be challenging sometimes but it can also be FUN!
How can you make it more fun?
As I always say, it’s not what is happening to us that makes us feel a certain way but our interpretation of it!
So, you can make it funnier by asking your brain questions that will empower you to have more fun during this time such as:
How can I have fun during this time of my life?
How can I make it pleasant, light, and easy?
How can I support myself when times get hard and I’m feeling negative hopeless and frustrated?
Down the line, all that you want is to have fun while dating until we are in a relationship.
You don’t have to delegate to somebody else the hard job of making you happy!
So, be happy right where you’re standing right now!
Let me help you get there and find love, my life coaching clients and I have been on that journey and we finally found love!
