Just Like You, I’ve Been There!

Posted on May 06, 2022 by Jay Baker , One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.

For years, I lived with an impoverished inner voice. I was raised in a lower middle-class family that came upon hard times. My dad, mom, and extended family worked tirelessly to make ends meet in order to sustain the family. We had just enough to slimly get by. As a child, I was fully aware of our struggles. I would often hear an inner voice giving me caution about everything I did or would ever want since money was always tight. Even in adulthood, with my independence and finances, I struggled to overcome this impoverished mindset that was accompanied by a hauntingly somber inner voice. I existed in a Charlie Brown state with a constant cloud of guilt ready to rain down on me anytime I considered doing something nice for myself. To avoid confronting such misery, I began to live a luke-warm, mundane life of routine activities to give my life structure as I juggled the day-in, day-out rigmarole of life.

I got to the point where I had enough. I decided that things had to change. I finally took a leap to get help from a life coach. As a client, I learned the importance of having a mission and vision for my life. Until that point, I lived most of my life wandering day-to-day, almost aimlessly to fulfill societal, institutional, and governmental requirements. I discovered that I was not conscious of the influence of my socialization: I was molded to think and solve problems, but with an institutionalized mindset. I went through the wicks of the American education system, from grade school through grad school, learning everything and questioning nothing. I’ve worked in government as a highly skilled and disciplined employee, taking and issuing orders without question. While deep inside, I had a yearning for more than the mundane day-in, day-out life I had lived thus far.

Through a process of self-discovery, trial and error, and incredible coaching, I unlocked a version of myself that I knew was inside, but never knew how to access. When I did, things were never the same. Step by step, I built the life I once imagined, a life full of adventure and excitement and joy. I became the best version of myself. 

That was some years ago. I have since dedicated the rest of my life to showing others how to overcome those limiting behaviors that held me back for so many years. I am now a certified life coach who has experience to share and the insight to guide you to solutions that enhance your life. I will help destroy the illusions that make problems feel real by eliminating the root causes of problems that keep you a prisoner of your own life. You will overcome fear, negative thoughts, anxieties, and stress so that you can realize and achieve life-changing breakthroughs and find and live your best life, starting today!

Would you like to work with a coach who can help you achieve the same life-changing results? Book your free strategy call today!