How to live the life of your dreams
Posted on December 01, 2011 by Chantal Beaulieu Lynch, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
Four major reasons why people do not live the life of their dreams.
We are living in a society that is programmed by external demands placed upon us daily. We want to live the life of our dreams but we feel trapped with an endless to-do list.
How do we move forward so we are able to live a fulfilling and meaningful life? What are the steps that we need to take so that we can become the best that we can be? Where do we start? Who can help us in our journey? How do I even know what I really want for my life? My dear friend, you are not alone. Most people are living lives of quiet desperation. There are not happy with their current situation. But why do we stay where we are? As a coach and speaker, I have come to see trends in people. There are four major reasons why people do not live the life of their dreams.
The First Reason:
They do not know what they want. They have not stopped long enough to ask themselves important questions such as:What is really important to me? What do I want to do with my life? What difference do I want to make in other people’s lives? How do I want people to remember me?
The Second Reason:
People do not live the life of their dreams because they do not know how to go about making their dreams a reality. It can be very scary out there in what seems to be a cold and harsh world. How do they compete with the rest of the world? What steps do they need to take in order to move on and to make things happen? How do they know they are going in the right direction? Isn’t there a faster way?
They can answer these questions by hiring a coach, taking classes, and attending seminars. A Speaker can inspire, inform, motivate and uplift you. By combining coaching, attending events, with constant reading, listening to CD’s and DVD’s, they are able to take the steps necessary to move in the direction of their dreams.
The Third Reason:
People do not take action. Even when people know what they want they may never take the first step or they may abandon before they reach their destiny. Why is this? One of the reasons is that people have fears. It may be fear of failure, fear of the unknown or even fear of success. Another reason is that, for the most part, people left to themselves tend to let things go undone. One of the best ways to get something done is to have somebody to be accountable to. This person can be a trusted friend or a coach.
The Fourth Reason:
The most important reason people do not live the life of their dreams is that they do not believe that they deserve it. So many treasures and gifts have been untapped because of lack of self-esteem and self-confidence. Having somebody there to cheer you on and to encourage you is a wonderful feeling. Once again we can find this through supportive family members and friends as well as through a coach.
Know what you want. Learn how to move in the direction of your dreams. Take action by finding somebody you can be accountable to. Believe and know in your heart that you will succeed. I wish you the best my dear friend.