A 9-Hole Course To Greater Intimacy

Posted on March 13, 2013 by Steve Horsmon, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.

Hole #1 – Par 3
Acknowledging and Admitting You’ve Been Trying the Wrong Things

• Sex as a measure of success? Really?
• Allowing sex drive to screw up your sex appeal!
• Ignoring your short game in the bedroom?

Hole #2 – Par 4
Understand Why Your Swing Is Totally Ineffective

• Swinging too hard is extremely unattractive
• Picking your head up is the same as ignoring your wife
• Cussing at the ball is the same as criticizing your wife
• Pounding the club is the same as disrespecting your wife

Hole #3 – Par 4
Remembering Your Best Game Ever

• Calm confidence = attractive masculinity
• Patience and humor = sexy personality
• Not caring about the last shot = mysterious hot dude
• Supporting everyone else’s game = her initiating for the first time!

Hole #4 – Par 3
Understand Why That Day is Hard to Repeat

• You need to know what you don’t know!
• You need to believe what you NOW know!
• You need to WANT to become the golfer you were meant to be!

Hole #5 – Par 3
Changing Your INTENT – every day!

• Waking up tomorrow with a new INTENTION
• Deciding to “light up” the golf course and everyone on it
• Having a plan to stay consistent until it becomes natural

Hole #6 – Part 5
Discovering What the Golf Goddess REALLY Needs

• Do you know her MOST BASIC needs and how she likes them met?
• Yes, She Fantasizes…not always about you.
• Do you have any idea how well she can read your INTENT?
• Learning Psychology 101 so you can LOVE her better than ever before
• Becoming aware of your SECRET POWER to create good feelings

Hole #7 – Par 4
Learning to Give with ZERO Expectations (not every shot will be good)

• Filling her up for “free” is so HOT
• Coming from a place of love in everything you say and do
• Maintaining your “frame” – the new you is here to stay
• Knowing about the TESTS that are coming your way

Hole #8 – Par 4
Declaring YOUR Values Without Apology

• You ARE a sexual man – no apologies needed
• You WILL take the responsibility for creating a positive environment for everyone in your “inner circle”
• You DO NOT tolerate anger, disrespect, or unhealthy marital behavior from yourself or her
• You WILL invite others to join you in your values and allow THEM to choose their own path

Hole #9 – Par 4
Remembering WHY the First 8 Holes Will Change Your Whole Game

• This is NOT about getting laid, but that will be an outcome!
• Improving yourself and your “game” is critical to EVERY relationship in your life
• It took years to get where you are now. Changing it will take time as well.

The Back 9 will be incredible if you want them to be. If you don’t, you WILL keep enjoying the game you’ve been enjoying this far.