Secret Sauce to Getting What You Want
Posted on August 16, 2013 by Laura Cabral Fink, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
Ever see people who always get what they want
What's the difference between you and them
Read my helpful hints to have you getting what you want now
Secret Sauce to getting what you want.
1. People often say that life is hard, getting what they want is not too easy. Consider that the only thing that’s stopping you from getting what you want is you. Huh? Me? No, it’s my circumstance you say? ‘au contraire- it is actually you my friend.
2. We create our worlds inside our minds. Our thoughts create our beliefs, which dictate our actions and vice versa. Your mind is powerful and you are not giving yourself credit for the world you’re creating. Repeat after me, I am responsible for my life. I am creating it with my thoughts and beliefs.
3. So, check inside your mind a minute. If you are responsible for your life, check in with yourself and see what are the thoughts and beliefs that are driving your world. If you like what you hear in there, carry on. If you hear some not so nice things, time to check in and process through them. Consider that you may need to upgrade what you’re thinking about.
4. Strategize a plan to break the bad negative self talk habit. Hire a coach, a therapist, or an accountability partner to hold you accountable to breaking this habit. It’s time to let go of the thoughts that no longer serve you and replace them with uplifting thoughts.
5. Once the cobwebs of negative thoughts are cleared out can you start building new thoughts, thoughts that will have you get what you want in your life. No longer will there be the self talk telling you otherwise.
Secret sauce to getting what you want, upgrade your negative self talk.
