Being single is not a curse, instead it is an opportunity!
Posted on July 23, 2014 by Amie Leadingham, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
Being single is not a curse, instead it is an opportunity! Here is how you can be a successful single!
Let me start by saying I think everyone should experience a fulfilling relationship. But most of us think it is so farfetched from attaining the love we wish, instead we end up settle for a warm body. I often hear some of my clients say, “It’s better than being alone.” When did being single become such a curse?
Isn’t it better to be single and wait for the right partner than be in a lonely relationship? It is time you change your perspective and view being single as an opportunity. Each day you should live with intention and make each moment a memory that carries for a lifetime. Be conscious of your choices and how you live life, this is how you carry yourself as a successful single. Instead of waiting for life to happen, you choose what happens in your life.
So many people rush into a relationship only to discover that love was never meant to be. Why get stuck in that rut? Slow down the process and take time to screen your potential partner. Enjoy your life while you are doing it, make sure your potential partner proves themselves awesome before you consider sharing your precious time with them! It is so important to get to know who you are as a person before you commit. Make a list of things you have always wanted to try and push yourself outside of your comfort zone to explore new things. This is how you will truly find out what is important to you and discover your values.
There is nothing sexier than a happy single! As you become whole in your identity, you will begin to automatically attract the people on the same page. Birds of a feather flock together! Imagine if you could date someone you didn’t feel you had to fix or make excuses for their behavior. Instead you felt like you had a partner, someone you respected, and they felt the exact same way about you. This can be a reality for everyone; all it takes is a change of perspective. It sounds a little cliche but if you love yourself first, it opens the door for others to love you back!
Amie Leadingham
