5 Tips For Finding The Relationship That You Really Want
Posted on July 13, 2015 by Angelina Borak , One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
5 Things you can do right now to start creating the perfect relationship!
A good relationship doesn’t just happen. It takes some work. The first step toward a great relationship is you. If you are willing to work on yourself first, then you have a much better chance of having a truly meaningful relationship.
Clean up your life. If you have an area in your life that needs work, now is the time to work on it. This could be your finances, your health, or your home. If you think you need to lose a few pounds, work on your diet and exercise plan. By working on these areas, you will also develop a greater love for yourself.
Love yourself. If you don’t love yourself, how can anyone else love you? Your partner wants to know that you can love them. If you aren’t able to love yourself, then you won’t be able to love them either. Be mindful of your thoughts about yourself and make those thoughts positive.
Know your thoughts. Your thoughts create your beliefs and your beliefs create your reality. Law of Attraction is always working. What you think about, is what you get. If you think you can’t have the perfect relationship, than you won’t have it. If you think that all members of the opposite sex are scum, then you will only attract scum. So clean up your thoughts and focus on what you would really like and value in a partner.
Know your values. How will you know if you are compatible with someone if you don’t know your values? When you are looking for a relationship, not just dating, it is important you understand what you value. You want to select a partner who shares the same values that you do. If you want to get married, don’t date someone that has no interest in marriage. Don’t be afraid to really say what you want. Being selective creates a better chance at success in your next relationship.
Be in a relationship with yourself. It is okay to be single while you are looking for the relationship that you desire. You will always have a relationship with yourself and that is the most critical relationship that you have. Being in the wrong relationship is worse than being single because it stops you from finding the relationship that will really make you happy.
Most of all, you don’t have to be perfect to find a meaningful relationship. If perfection were a requirement for a good relationship, no one would be in one. Also, consider hiring a Relationship Coach. A good Coach can help you prepare for a meaningful relationship by helping you identify your goals, beliefs, and values.
