How To Crack The "Emotionally Unavailable Guy" Code
Posted on April 10, 2017 by Kel Good, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.
Have trouble getting him to open up? Does he zone out and not really hear you? I'll share some of his secrets, so you can start cracking the code!
It’s driving you nuts right?
You love this guy but you can’t figure out how to get him to open up.
You try talking with him but he gives you one word answers.
He just seems to zone out and not really hear you.
So then you try a different tactic.
Maybe you nag him about the things he’s neglecting getting done.
Or you try to shame him for putting his friends ahead of you.
Hey, maybe you’ve even tried turning on the sexy, buying some new lingerie and setting up the candle lit dinner!
But all you keep hitting is a brick wall.
He just seems to push you away no matter what you do.
What gives?
Is there any way to break through his defenses and get him to open up?
I understand your pain.
Because I was that guy too.
But I changed!
So I know how to help you.
There’s way more to this than I can share in a simple article.
That’s why I work with girls just like you, who are trying to get through to their guys.
When we work together you’ll have a friend who understands “the enemy!”
Of course I don’t really mean that.
But it can sure seem that way sometimes, can’t it?
Let me share just a few of his secrets, so you can start cracking the code.
He was raised to be strong.
To not show his feelings.
He was told that feelings make him weak.
He believes if he allows his feelings too much control, he may not be able to handle what he has to.
So he’s learned to suppress them.
Learned to keep them down.
He doesn’t feel them as strongly as you do.
When they do come up, he has learned to ignore them so they don’t influence him.
In other words, he’s learned to be stoic.
That means he won’t feel pain, so it won’t keep him from his mission.
But it also means he can’t easily feel the good feelings either.
The ones he has for you.
They are there, believe me.
He’s just not used to letting them show.
What he needs to know is you love his strength and the way he fights for you “out there.”
Then he’ll begin to relax when it’s just the two of you “in here.”
That’s the part that takes the work.
It’s why I work with girls just like you, to help you find this balance.
I didn’t know how to connect my partner either.
But I changed.
So I can help the two of you make changes you need to.
And it really starts with you.
When you become the type of girl he feels safe to open up with, he can begin to take those steps towards you.
Don’t wait any longer wondering how to crack the code – book your FREE consultation today!
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