How to Find A Fulfilling Life Focus
Posted on March 11, 2019 by Dr LaVerne Adams, One of Thousands of Relationship Coaches on Noomii.
What you focus on will generally manifest itself in your life. Sooner or later, what you focus on will be what your life becomes.
Finding the right life focus can be a challenge. Plenty of things catch your attention and drag you away from your passions. If you spend too much time looking at the distractions of life, those distractions can keep you from accomplishing the things that you value most.
Activities to Focus on in Your Life
Many thoughts, ideas, and obligations compete for your attention every day. Consider the following questions when you’re trying to decide on the activities you want to focus on more deeply:
1. Where do you want to be in your career? If you’re not where you’d like to be, what can you do that will move you forward in the direction of your career aspirations?
2. How are your personal relationships? If these bonds aren’t as strong as you’d like, what can you do to strengthen them so they can endure hardships?
3. Where are you spiritually? What can you do to further develop your spiritual life?
There are many paths to happiness. The path you choose depends on your deepest core values and desires, and those values can be very different to what matters to other people. Instead of aiming for what makes others happy, focus on what matters most to you.
Decide to spend your life focusing on activities that work for you, make you happy, and add purpose and value to your future. If you’re focusing on something other than that, you’re missing out on the most important things life has to offer. Your life focus directs your steps and shapes your destiny. Choose the destiny you deserve.
Ways to Find Your Life Focus
If you want to find your life focus, spend time with people who know where they want to go with their life and are passionate about fulfilling their purpose. The company you keep makes a huge difference in the direction your life takes. How you look at the world, what you think about, and the way you spend your time also shape your future.
When you evaluate your life to determine the right direction for you, consider your ultimate destiny.
• What would you allow yourself to do or dream if you knew it was impossible for you to fail?
• What relationships would you pursue?
• What career decisions would you make?
• What experiences would you try?
• What’s stopping you from getting started today?
Everyone’s life focus is different. For some, a happy family is what’s most important. Others dream of attaining a degree, reaching a certain income level, or experiencing a life of thrills and travel. The key to your happiness is finding those life activities that feed your soul and fulfill your purpose. When you do, you’ll enjoy the rich, full life you’ve always dreamed about.