Melissa Menchaca's Articles
Meta-Talks
By Melissa Menchaca · April 01, 2019
So what is a Meta-Talk? These are talks that happen outside of your relationship; person to person. Drop the roles and have a discussion.
Discussing Power Dynamics
By Melissa Menchaca · April 01, 2019
This power exchange doesn’t have to involve intimacy at all. We all deal with power exchanges all of the time without ever really noticing it.
Exploration of Self and Each Other
By Melissa Menchaca · April 01, 2019
This can be as fun or as terrifying as you make it out to be. The magic lies within you.
Discussing Limits
By Melissa Menchaca · April 01, 2019
Each person has different limits. Each person has different gray areas where they just don’t know yet. Limits can change over time.
Setting Aside Playtime
By Melissa Menchaca · April 01, 2019
The key is to schedule this in to your life. Well, here’s a harsh truth for you all, if you leave it up to chance, it probably isn’t going to happen.