It's not you, it's them - 7 steps for when you realize.
Posted on July 17, 2025 by The Coaching Potential Group, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
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It’s Not You—It’s the Soil
You’ve always made excuses for them.
You’ve always taken accountability.
You’ve grown, and you’re doing all the right things.
And yet…
It’s still not working.
That’s because it’s not you—it’s them. Or more specifically, it’s the environment.
A seed can carry the potential of a mighty tree. But if it’s never placed in the right soil, it will never grow.
You must be planted in the right environment to grow—and eventually flourish.
Here’s how to start:
1.Trust yourself. Stop second-guessing your gut.
2.Honor your desires. Don’t ignore what you truly want.
3.Speak your truth. Even if your voice shakes.
4.Don’t waste energy on closed minds. Protect your peace.
5.Let silence speak. It’s often louder than words.
6.Create alignment. Design your life to work for you.
7.Keep your heart soft. Growth and healing require tenderness.
You aren’t the problem.
You are a seed.
Now it’s time to find your soil.
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