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3 Life Challenges – Sacred Solitude, Strong Boundaries, & Discovering Your Self

Posted on July 20, 2016 by Gail Showalter, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.

Woman can turn their lives around by addressing these 3 areas-Solitude, Boundaries, & the Authentic Self

Women know that life is loaded with challenges. You probably face hurdles every day. In my book Living Learning Loving I’ve share from my heart and with personal experiences, ways to tackle the troubles head-on, ways to turn your life around.
TURN LONELINESS TO SACRED SOLITUDE
You may experience loneliness. Being lonely, however, is not the same as being alone. Solitude can be a treasured time for women. I state in Living Learning Loving, “I’ve spent many days in solitude, some by choice—others not. Either way I learned more, stretched more, and grew more during those times. Aloneness need not be lonely. It can be a time for needed change and insight into your plans and choices. It can even be seen as me time when you can focus on your own needs, wants, and desires for the future.” Loneliness can provide a time for solitude, an opportunity to something new in your life.
WEAK BOUNDARIES TO PERSONAL FREEDOM
Another challenge that is common with women is weak boundaries. Your personal boundaries start in your mind. How you think of yourself determines how you set your boundaries. If you have healthy self-respect you will find it easy to set personal boundaries. If, however, you grew up in a dysfunctional or abusive home you probably are uncomfortable when it comes to saying no or setting limits with people. You may isolate yourself and find it hard to develop safe relationships. “We don’t always know how out of balance our boundaries are until they are challenged. Rebuilding a marriage or going through a divorce are the times that expose where our boundary lines lay and where they need to change,” as I state in the book.
If your boundaries are weak you may be allowing nasty people into your private territory so to speak. Nasty people aren’t necessarily easy to recognize.
God’s grace is the answer to discerning when a “nasty” person is taking of advantage you.
PERSONALITY MASKS TO TRUE AUTHENTICITY
Finally women who go through a troublesome marriage and divorce benefit from personality assessment. Discovering your strengths and struggles of your personalities helps you to be your best selves. You may have put on masks to cover up your true nature in order to please a partner. Masking means you are not behaving according to your God-given personality. You can remove the mask and be free. As I said here in the book personality masks need to be removed. “As I grew spiritually my mask no longer fit, and slowly the edges curled back and I could see the deep impressions that wearing it had left on my life. I also got a glimpse of the person underneath. I was growing now and these spread out your roots pains were uncomfortable.”
Overcoming loneliness, identifying boundary weaknesses, and removing personality masks will turn your life around. You will enjoy solitude. You will have personal freedom. You will discover your true self. And this will turn you into an empowered woman.

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