How to Soften your Relationships
Posted on October 11, 2018 by Ramy Elgebaly, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
Do you miss that passion and infatuation in your relationship? Do you find hard to open-up or be yourself with your partner and so created a distance?
In my search for the keys for better life and what makes relationships happy and last longer, I found that there are 5 rules that shapes foundation blocks for any healthy relationship, make them your habits and I guarantee you a healthy relationship.
1.Love: That sounds obvious, but love is not just a feeling it is deeper, a feeling is similar to what you descript when you like someone, while loving someone is much more, it is about always treating them honorably and no matter what, they always come first. Unconditional love is the most powerful key to getting the desired feelings in any relationship.
2.Open communication: Opening up takes courage. No matter what, tell the other person the truth and how you honestly feel. The more vulnerable you are the more power you have; many people don’t do this and that’s why many people have problems with their relationships.
3.Good intension: Human behavior is not always who we are, it is more often a reflex based on each one’s model of world and whatever we do is driven by good intention, for example rude people might be scared or insecure and just trying to protect themselves. Never question your partner’s intent.
4.Power of words: Most people don’t praise enough, there is a power in words so use it and watch the magic happens. Be specific if you praise, and don’t generalize much of your praises. Keep giving this way and you will eventually receive the same.
5.Acceptance: Don’t expect your partner to be other than who they really are. Accept them as they are and make sure you show your acceptance rather than leave it up to them to understand it or get it their own way.
