Feeling Like You Need To Fix Yourself?
Posted on July 27, 2024 by Jerry Henderson, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
You won't heal the fractures inside of you with the things that are outside of you!
Most of us are programmed to believe that something external is going to fix us.
We believe that another relationship, the right career, a certain amount of money, a new location, etc. is what is going to “fix” us.
Our brains get wired to look for things outside of ourselves for healing because it was often things outside of us that were responsible for our pain.
While, it is normal to make the association that because something external hurt you, that it will also be something external that will heal you.
The truth, however is that the trauma or the pain is not just what happened to you, but it’s what happens in you. And because trauma and pain is what has happened in you, it is also the work that you do inside of yourself that will heal you.
When you discover that you have the ability and the resources within yourself to heal your own life, everything begins to change.
I encourage you to take time to shift your attention away from looking outside of yourself and draw your attention within yourself and see the power that lies within you to bring healing to yourself.
I am grateful you are here,
Jerry.
