Uncovering the Roots of Our Relationships: The Lasting Impact of Childhood Traum
Posted on July 13, 2025 by Anil Kanthi, One of Thousands of Life Coaches on Noomii.
How Early Wounds Shape Adult Intimacy and Behavior
Having a partner who is a mirror to you is so necessary. One must be very grateful to have a partner ready to help while you get through your traumas.
Traumas are deeply embedded in the mind of a person. When the parents and people who brought them up are not stable themselves, that person’s childhood is so traumatic that they hardly remember where their current behaviors and patterns have roots.
Childhood is when a human is fundamentally programmed and becomes an outcome of all he has experienced.
All of it. Nothing spared.
Those experiences become the framework upon which he builds his life, and the traumas the child faces in infancy reveal themselves in intimate relationships in adulthood. How he conducts the relationship, respects the partner, behaves, thinks, and does everything he does in the relationship accords with what he was programmed as a child.
